WhatsApp relationship analysis: see what changed
Your whole chat on one timeline. See who writes more, who starts, when you talk and when it went quiet. Every voice note is written out, with a summary of the key moments and promises.
Years of messages, in a few minutes of reading
Your PDF opens with a short summary of the whole chat, with the moments and promises that mattered most. Each one points to its message, so you can read what was really said.
Here's an example, from a chat between Priya and Sam.
Summary
Priya and Sam start writing in March 2022. For two years they send about 21 messages a day, mostly first thing in the morning and in the evening, and Priya starts most of the conversations.
Sam moves to Leeds for work in June 2024, and messages drop to about 10 a day. There are more voice notes from here on, and they get longer.
In January 2025 there's a silence of 10 days, the longest in the chat. After it, Sam starts most of the conversations.
Key highlights
- 112 Mar 2022The first message.
- 17,3153 Jun 2024Sam says he's taken the job in Leeds.
- 18,02317 Aug 2024They agree to see each other one weekend a month.
- 18,8249 Nov 2024Priya asks about the Lisbon trip. It isn't mentioned again.
- 19,3583 Jan 2025The last message before the silence.
- 19,35914 Jan 2025Sam writes first, and asks if they can talk.
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Who writes more and who starts. The hours and days you talk. The longest silence. It's all there when you open your chat, before you pay anything.
Messages per person
Voice notes and recording time
Messages per month
Time of day
Day of the week
Person by person
| Messages | 10,987 | 10,058 |
|---|---|---|
| Conversations started | 996 | 741 |
| Words typed | 77,166 | 70,278 |
| Voice notes | 149 | 135 |
| Recording time | 2 h 5 min | 1 h 53 min |
| Photos | 256 | 260 |
| Other files | 0 | 0 |
| Typical reply | 6 min 35 s | 5 min 51 s |
Longest gap: 10 days 12 h, from message 19,358 (Sam Okafor, 3 Jan 2025, 20:21:40) to message 19,359 (Sam Okafor, 14 Jan 2025, 09:16:34).
A new conversation starts when someone writes after at least 6 hours of quiet. Typical reply is how long a person usually takes to answer.
Voice notes you can read again
The things people say out loud are often the ones that matter. In your PDF, every voice note is written out in the place it was sent, in the language it was spoken.
Wednesday, 16 October 2024
Sam Okafor
Voice note, 0:24
I know I've been quiet. The new job's been a lot, and by the time I get back I've got nothing left. It's not you. I just wanted to say that out loud rather than type it.
Priya Shah
Thank you for saying it. Can we talk on Sunday?
Sam Okafor
Yes. Sunday.
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Years of writing to each other
See how long you've been talking, the years you were closest and the gaps in between. Every voice note is there to read again.
The voice notes you don't want to lose
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The hours you keep for each other
See the times you talk, who stays up and how often you really write. Your months apart, on one timeline.
It stays between you
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Export your chat
From your phone, with media, so the voice notes come too. It takes a minute or two. How to export a chat
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Open it and see the numbers
Your chat opens on your own device. Read it, search it and see the charts for free.
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Get the PDF if you want it
One payment, set by the length of your chat. You get the whole timeline, every voice note written out and a summary with the key highlights and promises.
Common questions
Will it tell me who was right?
No. It shows what was said and when, and it takes no side. It isn't therapy or advice.
Does the other person find out?
No. WhatsApp doesn't tell anyone when you export a chat, and we never contact anyone in it.
Can I see the charts before I pay?
Yes. Who writes more, who starts, the hours and days you talk and the longest silence are all free when you open your chat. You only pay if you want the PDF with every voice note written out.
Does it have to be a romantic relationship?
No. It works for any chat that matters to you: a friend, a parent, a sibling or a family group.
Who can read my chat?
While you read, nobody. It stays on your device. If you order, software writes out the voice notes and makes your PDF, and we delete the chat as soon as it's made.
How does it decide what the key moments are?
AI reads the whole chat and picks out decisions, promises and turning points. It can miss things or get them wrong, so each highlight shows its message number and you can read it for yourself.
Our chat goes back years. Will it work?
Yes. WhatsApp limits how much one export can hold, and your PDF shows the period it really covers. The price goes up with the length, and you see it before you pay.
Start with your own chat
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